3 Orgasm Toys for #SexToyTuesday

It's Orgasm October, lovelies! So what better time to say, "I want you to have a great orgasm. And by the way, I'll be having a great orgasm, too." If you can string all those words together, you'll definitely be worthy of some sexy goods. But wait... When was the last time you got a sex toy?

Playthings that make great couple's toys. While lots of folks use vibrators, dildos, masturbation sleeves and the like to enhance their solo-play, there are also a lot of great toys out there can be used by couples to make any sexual encounter a little more fun. Searah Deysach, owner of Early to Bed in Chicago, reports.

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Finger vibes

So if you are your honey are having intercourse or giving each other head, you'd be amazed what a little vibration add to the action can do. She can slip a mini vibe her finger and she'll have an easy way to stimulate her clitoris while enjoying intercourse.

Performing fellatio or a handjob? A fingertip vibe used on the underside of his penis or his scrotum can be an incredible and new sensation. If you are giving her a good tongue lashing with cunnilingus, a fingertip vibe can be used to give your neck a break for a few seconds and clever folks can even use one at their tongue at the same time which could result in explosive orgasms for her!

Flirt Finger Vibe $20

Vibrating CockRings

Wann take Missionary Position to new heights? Have him slip on a vibrating cockring for yummy sensations during penetrative sex*. The ring helps maintain his erection by restricting blood flow and the vibe provides the kind of stimulation that many women need to have an orgasm.

But wait, there's more! Flip the vibe upside down so it rests on his balls for a unique feeling during intercourse or other activities. If it is guy-on-guy action that that you are having, keeping the vibe on the underside of the "driver's" penis can be a great feeling on the perineum of his partner. No dick in the room? Vibrating cockrings can be used on dildos or even some vibes to double your pleasure!

* Women often ask if the tight ring is uncomfortable for guys. For all reports, for the most park folks like that feel and as one of our customers said, "it’s like getting a hug from your favorite person, but on your cock."

Rise & Shine Cockring from Lelo $59

Masturbation sleeves

Designed for peni-owners to pleasure themselves, masturbation sleeves can also be a great addition to your repertoire with a partner. Stretchy tubes made of various materials, these are usually hiding lots of nubs, ridges or tingly bits inside that can take your handjob or blowjob for nice to NIIIIICE.

Use plenty of lube (flavored if you are going to be tasting him) and go to town! If you are performing fellatio, the sleeve is a great trick to give your jaw a break. And if you are giving your lover a handjob, the sleeve will keep the sensation varied and exciting. Add a blindfold before you slip it on and I bet you'll get a great reaction from him.

Fleshlight STU $76

Whatever you do, remember that sex toys are designed to make sex more fun for everyone, so try not to be intimidated if your partner whips one our or wants to experiment with one. The more the merrier!

Searah Deysach is owner of Early to Bed. She's been committed to informing Chicago about sex and love for over a decade. She's written for and been featured in numerous publications on the topic from Chicago Now to WBEZ, MsBehaved, Chicago Reader and beyond. She also lectures frequently on topics related to sex and sexuality. Follow Searah on Twitter as @EarlyToBed, Subscribe on Facebook and follow her blogs on the Early to Bed blog. Also check out her blog on screwy's sex toys amply named, Searah's Musem of Screwy Sex Toys blog.