Of course you all need to chat first, obviously! Does he want anal love? The answer? Pegging.
Usually we do the position of the day. However, at GetLusty we've been thinking about anal a lot (it's anal August).
We remember when we were confused about pegging and wanted to share the love metaphorically!
So here is a newbie tutorial to pegging based on our own trial & error.
Prepare
#1 Prepare yourself. Have your strap on bought and in place. Have a water-based lube handy. Make sure it's not too tight or loose.
Assume the position
#2 Have him get on all fours. It's the easiest way to start the process. Though after you might want to change your positions up for stimulation, pressure or otherwise.
#3 Get on your knees behind him.
#4 Lube! Make sure to apply plenty of water-based or other kinds of lube to your dildo and the outside of the anus (asshole).
Insert #5 Insert the strap on into his anus. Just the tip. As noted by Early to Bed in their Twitter comment, you can also slide in a finger (it's always helpful to get him to help you at this point [don't do it too quickly]).
#6 Once the tip of your strap on is inside, ask your man, "Are you feeling pain or pleasure?"
#7 If he's doing alright (not too in pain) continue in very slowly (like a snail's pace). If he's in pain, slowly remove the strap on and re-lubricate. Try again.
#8 Now, reverse the motion of the strap on (start to take it out of his anus).
In & out
#9 Then, move it back in and continue to wiggle the strap on in and out. Not feeling very natural? Don't worry, just try to create an 8 or O shape with your hips.
#10 In this position, don't worry about massaging his prostate. During this time, feel free to mention that he can also jerk himself off for extra pleasure. Continue until he's thoroughly enjoyed himself.
Do you have variations to this position? We want to hear them! Comment below!
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