Black Friday: 4 Reasons to Buy Sex Toys Instead

Though it's Thanksgiving, I'm sure you're already thinking about Black Friday. It's the time of year where we Americans get out there and shop until we drop. It's rather crazy across the country; where shoppers have been known to trample across stores. But sex toy shops--online and off--aren't known for being packed-to-the-brim with fellow shoppers. Not only that, but do you really need (want) a newer television? Or would you like to try a different orgasm this Christmas? At GetLusty, we'd say try the new orgasm. For this and more, check out GetLusty's Traci Saiz on several more reasons to go sex toy shopping this Black Friday. In Chicago? Get your free vibrator this Black Friday.

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Without ado, the reasons why you should buy sex toys instead (or at least in addition) this Black Friday.

#1 Variety! Let’s mix it up!

Introducing toys into the bedroom can be fun, sexy, and exciting! Toys can enhance your arousal and your performance. Using a vibrator in just the right spot will get any woman ready to go. The same goes for men, grab a vibrator and use it on him for some effortlessly hot foreplay. Go to your nearest sex shop and see just how fun it can be. Toys are a great way to mix it up and add some variety. Talk about foreplay; tease her, tease him, get things hot and steamy with a little extra help. Buy a toy or two and stay in all weekend. Explore something new, surprise your partner, and seize the moment. So grab a toy and get to it!

The seasons are changing so why not get ready for the long cold winter by heating things up at home. Sex toys are great to add a little something extra. Not feeling it or too tired? Grab your toy, instant turn on for you both. Engage or watch! Sex toys are great for those times when one partner “wants to” and the other partner just isn’t in the mood. It allows the partner who feels like sexual pleasure the option of having it while adding the aid of a sex toy to the mix.

#2 Curious? So are we!

You’ve wanted to try something new but are hesitant and not sure where to start. Well now is your chance. Grab that special someone and hit the nearest sex shop! There are tons of different toys to choose from; cock rings, dildos, nipple clamps, whips, you name it, and they’ve got it. Anything you can think of to just try out, why not? You never know just how much fun you could have. Toys are much more than just the bachelor/bachelorette novelty gift. Vibrators and dildos don’t have to be big and scary, many are small and discreet.

Cock rings are fun for both parties! Just have your man slip one on and you both can enjoy the extra pleasure. A strap-on can open a new door for both of you---new sensations as well as a new role to play. Not sure how? Check out our 10 steps to awesome pegging. Let’s not forget one of my favorites—vibrating panties! Sure, they’re not your “typical” toy, but they are definitely a lot of fun! Feeling frisky and know you are going to be out on the town? Slip into these sexy buzz operated beauties and hand the remote over to your partner. They get to control how much and when you get that little extra buzz going. Talk about foreplay! This is an instant turn on for both of you and brings out your exhibitionist side. You will both enjoy the secret kink while going about your day or night.

Ladies, feel free to ask for a vibrator in that toy shop (do you have a Hitachi yet!?). When you get a yearning for some hanky panky give it a try. Be sure to text your partner so they can also enjoy your secret pleasure. The thought of using your little friend will get them riled up and you will both be ready for some action when you get home. Better yet, ask if your partner has a certain curiosity they would like to explore. There are anal kits and lubes, for example, that will help ease you and your partner into trying something a little more adventurous than the simple missionary position. (But if you want to make missionary mind blowing, you can always do that, too!)

#3 You really benefit

Bringing toys into the bedroom (or wherever you choose to get it on) will also enhance your health and communication while you’re at it. Yes, sex and those lovely toys are great for your body. Sex toys promote good health through all those amazing orgasms you will have.

Orgasms release stress and tension, and those endorphins are sure to put you in the best of moods. Having orgasms are healthy and fun! Have fun, get kinky and adventurous. Go ahead! Let those endorphins do the rest.

#4 Talk more about what you want

When was the last time you talked about what you really wanted in bed? Buying sex toys together can be a wonderful experience. It's not just for 'dirty' couples and won't replace your partner.

Shopping for a toy together allows you to be more open and start a conversation about what turns you both on. What better way to have sex than to do it no-holds bar! Communicate what you your interests are. Pick up a toy you’ve wanted to try, or one that just seems appealing. Toys can be the gateway to fulfilling all of each other’s fantasies!

We hope whatever you do that you'll have a fabulous time this Thanksgiving. Remember, we have plenty of ideas on making this Thanksgiving less stressful and more loving. And even cute ideas on how to make Thanksgiving a little sexier!

Speaking of sex toys... Help end boring sex and enter to win a LELO Tiani 2 courtesy of SheVibe. What do you need to do? Just 'Like' GetLusty on Facebook by December 1st! Have you followed us on Twitter yet? We're @getlusty there. We're also on Pinterest and Tumblr, too!

Traci Saiz is a Southern California native but a Chicago girl at heart. She has a B.A. in Marketing and mentors on the side. She is a sports fanatic, a fun-seeking traveler, and passionate in nature especially when it comes to sex. She believes sex is a key element in a relationship and it doesn’t have to be “movie” sex but it has to be fun! She is not afraid to bare her dirty secrets (actually she doesn’t seem to have any). This gal is definitely not shy and loves to discuss relationships and sex with anyone and everyone! Follow Traci on twitter @TraciAlaina or find her on Pinterest.

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Burlesque 101: What's Behind the Art of Tease

We at GetLusty are very into lots of sexy things. The bawdy, alcohol-fueled, steaming hot, stripped down, wild world of Burlesque is no exception. However, not everyone knows what Burlesque is or where it came from so we decided to do a little educational research. Our resident GetLusty Burlesque and Performance Artist Ms. Cherries Jubalie takes a look at watching women and men put on a show for us and tantalize us with a sexy striptease.

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Brief History of Burlesque

Originally the term Burlesque was designed to mean a satirical theatric production that made the audience laugh at contemporary issues.  Often it had a musical component, but was not just women or men taking off our clothes.  From the mid 1800's Burlesque halls had comedians, animal acts, and sexy ladies who entertained audiences.  Yes there were girls, but the current use of the word to mean a variety act that provides a sexy strip tease a la Gypsy Rose Lee is a modern interpretation.

In the early 1900's Burlesque started in clubs in the United States with the Minsky Brothers and the ladies were quick witted and humorous as well as sexy.  Performers such as Mae West were known more for their comedic quotations than for taking off their clothes.  By the 1930's when Burlesque began to be more about the striptease, but quick one-liners and funny acts were still a part of the show.  There was a public outcry about how obscene Burlesque performers were and many of the original clubs were closed.

Struggling into the 1950's Burlesque was synonymous with a striptease act and lost some of its integral humor.  But was now being categorized by media as an exotic art.  Movies like Teaserama featured top Burlesque performers such as Tempest Storm (who by the way is STILL performing in her 80's), Bettie Page, Lili St Cyr, and Blaze Starr.  These ladies among many others twirled their tassels to entice and tease audiences well into the 1970's.  Sally Rand, famous for Fan Dancing, was arrested in 1946 on obscenity charges for appearing to be nude at the Savoy in San Francisco.  The judge agreed to let her go with the caveat that she not get arrested again until trial--she was arrested again during the trial for her performance even though she was wearing long underwear with the word "Censored" written across the costume.  The judge cleared her of all charges eventually.

Modern Burlesque

Following the long legs and tassels of our beautiful Burlesque beginnings, Neo [New] Burlesque performers take the stage now to bedazzle, entice, and arouse audiences with a variety of acts all over the world.  These performers include elaborate costumes like their historical counterparts, include cabaret acts and props along with their striptease.  This can range from a classic tease with fans, tassels and twirling--to working with fire, grinders, and in my case combining sideshow variety acts like beds of nails and walking on broken glass to entertain their audiences.

Burlesque itself is not just about stripping down to bare all, but is about capturing the audience's attention with the tease of taking off the clothes.  Performers entertain the audience and introduce them to something sexy in various ways.  Many areas like my home town of Chicago have a good variety of individual acts or troupes of performers who put on a good show.  The art of Burlesque has become popular again and even Hollywood is putting out movies like Burlesque with Cher and Christina Aguilera staring in the film.  Unfortunately it didn't have any real Burlesque stars performing like the films of the 50's and 60's, but was entertaining and showed the resurgence of interest in the Art of the Tease.

One of the top celebrity performers today is Dita von Teese, known for quality acts such as stripping in a giant martini glass, has a budget for her performances that is quite substantial for the spectacle that entertains her audiences.  Most Burlesque performers don't have that luxury, but the acts do empower the ladies and gents to explore their sexuality.  A new term "boylesque" was coined to cover male performers and their striptease acts which were not a staple of historical Burlesque.  Modern Burlesque performers come in all sizes, shapes, and talents.

Be a Part of the Action

Taking your date to a Burlesque show is a fun, sexy night that could lead to some more intimate activities after.  Like most "tease" a performance could be the foreplay you need to get the night going, or just the thing to stir up a little variety in your sex life that isn't too overwhelming.  Most localities have public performances and may also offer workshops or classes on how to do a classic tease for your partner.  Do a web-based search for Burlesque in your area for more resources, or schedules of performances.

Ms. CherriesJubalie is a unique Burlesque performance artist and active member of the Chicago Leather Community.  She is a sex-positive educator, writer, and speaker traveling the country to present at local and national lifestyle events, art shows, and charity balls.  A sex-positive enigma, she has appeared on NBC's America's Got Talent where censors determined her "ass is too dangerous for Prime Time TV."  She has appeared in independent films such as Dracula Orgy of the Damned and the soon to be released Dark Realm.  She was also a featured performer on Kink.com's HogTied.  An internationally known Shibari Rope Artist and fetish model, you can see her in Germany's Bondage Magazine and on the cover of books like Sacred Kink.  To get in touch with her, contact cherry@getlusty.com. Don't forget to follow Cherries on Twitter.

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